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Lessons for living, what only adversity can teach you, Phil Stutz

eng

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non fiction

Lessons for living

1408727143

Phil Stutz

what only adversity can teach you

"There are issues, and there are issues-love, loss, success, failure, hope, regret, life, death. How can we even begin to think clearly about dilemmas so universally confounding? Phil Stutz has spent his life pondering the big challenges that we all face, and this profound book puts the conclusions he's reached at your fingertips. Stutz has been writing these remarkably insightful short essays since the late 1990s, and they are collected here for the first time, along with new insights specific to the unique challenges of today. Each one will change the way you think, but taken all together, this book becomes something far more than the sum of its parts, a compendium of human experience and knowledge that will reframe your worldview. There are hard truths here-the acknowledgment that life is full of pain and not a single one of us is special enough to escape it-but we need to understand and accept them in order to realize our full potential"--, Provided by publisher

Just an illusion -- Out of the blues -- The grateful flow -- The sky is falling -- Precious time -- Positively furious: the positive side of anger -- Getting the best of your bad habits -- Decisions, decisions -- The only true success -- Loving the one you're with -- Standing alone -- Faith: no doubt about it -- A model relationship -- Real freedom: becoming an authority -- Our most wasted natural resource: words of the wise -- What children need -- What teenagers need -- Knowing by doing -- Welcome to the club: we're all insecure -- Making peace with conflict -- Winning by losing -- Learning from your dreams -- Freedom or commitment? -- Rising above envy -- How to love yourself -- How to stop judging -- Staying on track -- Free to stay, free to leave -- Highly motivated -- A separate peace: guilt and the family